Right now everything is happening so fast and all I see is a confused Bruce Jenner and family .Bruce for the past 25 years has been under pressure with little or no time to discover his true self and purpose. So what we see now is a psychological effect of his weakness and calm self on the outside. His marriage had a strong effect on his psychology too. Kris Jenner is a strong woman ,a control freak with emotional competency. From all we've seen of Bruce, he's an introvert: calm ,quiet, shy with social anxiety. Unfortunately when all this characteristics are found in men, they tend to be the woman(so called "weaker vessels'') in every marriage ,they take orders instead of giving orders .They really do not have a say when they get into a marital relationship with control freaks ,they love so much and they would never want to hurt anyone they love , they just take things they way they are and the way it comes cause they would never hurt the ones they truly love, so they deprive themselves of all they really want for others and they tag themselves weak psychologically and tend to act like women. Instead of protecting, they want to be protected .Instead of taking responsibilities ,they want others to be responsible for them,etc. At a point in life, they realize time is not on their side and they have to live their life(s) and to live life, they have to be free because you can't live your live with a control freak around .That's why at that point in Bruce's life ,he decided to have a divorce(I.e detached himself from Kris(control freak)) .But it takes long to get over your control freak and your control freak getting the fact that he/she is not going to control you anymore that's why even after the divorced Kris was still bothered about his whereabouts ,who he hangs out with, etc. When you're divorced ,you're free ,you do what you want to do ,you're
not answerable to anyone but Kris felt Bruce was cause she's a control freak and Bruce found himself still answering cause it had become his habit and he is used to being answerable to Kris. At a point, Kris had to admit it is really over and found herself some new toy she could control effectively cause she's way older than he is and she could give him some good beatings if she wants to and control him to her taste. So at this point she lets Bruce go .
Letting Bruce go is a good thing but is it a Good thing for Bruce? You would say yes, after all it is all he ever wanted ,he wants to be free ,give his own commands, do things his own way and be the boss of himself. But instead letting go of Bruce affects him in the most terrible way. At this point people like Bruce tend to feel loss, rejected ,unwanted lonely and in their own world because they are used to being controlled by that particular person ,so it is really hard to move on. Series of things starts happening. They feel rejected by ones they were close to, so the tend to find love ,peace and confidence with strangers and form new circles. They tend to be secretive and do things Independently because they are trying to move on and at a point they consider changing their personality to someone else. To them and in their brains, being a new person entirely and hiding from all the drama is still part of moving on.90% of what happens in their lives happens in their brains .So they see their lives as unfulfilled and useless but they truly want to correct their mess and be fulfilled.
Most introverts with psychological issues like that of Bruce Jenner tend to have their strong point transition into their weak point and they fall in love with things around them and have a soft spot for the things they love especially those kind of things their control freaks loves. In Bruce Jenner's case his strong point is competition ,he is an very competitive person, he wants to be winner in every game ,etc. .His weak point is still competition and his controller, Kris. His soft spot is his family and women(I don't mean sexually) so he falls in love with what his family loves and what women love in general and he's passion and interest is in the feminine race. He lives with women, he trained and nurtures females from girls to women .So now, at this point of psychological rejection ,lowliness and loss, his mind tells him, If you can do all this things, you can be a lady too. The competitive spirit in him fuels the thought ''common you can do anything, that's the spirit, show the world you can be a lady and still achieve" and he fully succumbs and feels the best thing to do is fully transgender. The sad thing is that he went through all of the psychological trouble alone and his family was too busy to notice. Probably at some point , he opened up to a few strangers, friends and family but they didn't really understand but believe me, Bruce Jenner is going 97% through this psychological stress journey alone.
I'll remind us about a legend who we all mourn that went through this kind of stress too. I would have loved to share more deep eye opening stories but the kind of job I do, most things are kept very personal and confidential, so I can't share but i'll remind us of a story we all know already. Honestly ,I cry every time I have to thing or write about psychological stress journeys of introverts. I'll remind us of the Legend Michael Jackson. Michael was popular ,had all he ever wanted ,fought through with a lot of issues alone and psychologically. Finally, to please what he love(his fans and music) and become acceptable by people for what and who he was ,he went through a surgery to change his old personality, begin a new life and start afresh. People supported him, he felt wanted but not happy. He lived his life in regret .He lived his life wishing he never had to change his true personality. He lived his life wishing someone had stopped him. He lived his life cherishing his old photos. He lived his life alone. No one really knew the psychological stress and journey Michael was going through. Even with the over dose he took to stop this journey ,it didn't stop. It just keeps going as long as your alone. Truly ,do we want another story like this?
Bruce has a passion for women and competitions, he could channel it to something positive. Create an NGO ,an organisation or company with the aim of uplifting the feminine race and building strong competitive winning spirit in women. What he is channelling on now is the negative effect of psychological journeys and the thing is most of them succeed in channelling their success on the negative effect of this psychological journeys only 1% of these people manage to find their way back .No one would want to stop you Bruce ,no one stopped Michael, no one will want to stand as the barrier to what you want as a matter of fact they'll support you because they world, everyone wants to see something new but the fact is do they really care about you? Do you really care about yourself? You won't be the first Bruce neither would you be the last. A lot of people have been here before you and they all fought ,people lost and people won,they all went on this journey. Right now ,a lot of people all over the world are fighting hard. Some gave up while fighting ,others are still fighting but very few 0.5% win this fight. It up to you Bruce, you can channel the positive or negative way. You'll regret if you keep channelling the negative way, you'll hate yourself. Through research people who go through your kind of journey commit suicide at the end of it and live their entire lives after transition with pain ,shame and guilt especially the ones that have been told of the dangers already, the shame won't let them open up that they truly regret , they live their lives alone and wait for death, if death doesn't comes fast. They kill themselves. It's your choice Bruce Jenner ,no one can decide for you. They'll only advice you like I have done. By then you'll remember someone told you. BRUCE JENNER ,IF YOU TRANSITION FULLY TO A WOMAN,YOU'LL REGRET IT.
For those of you that have family/friends going through this kind of issues. Do not leave them, the only way to get them back is caring about what they want and respect for who they truly are. Do not discriminate them. Love them, do not ignore them, it's really hard dealing with this kind of people cause they make you feel a lot of emotions and pity for them but you've got to stand up and emphasis what it right to them with love. If you have any personal questions or you want to reach me, you can via ambergoldenpeter@gmail.com I love you all :) n/b am not trying to criticize anyone or be judgemental, am just spelling out true facts to help save life(s).Every human on earth is amazing with love. :)
not answerable to anyone but Kris felt Bruce was cause she's a control freak and Bruce found himself still answering cause it had become his habit and he is used to being answerable to Kris. At a point, Kris had to admit it is really over and found herself some new toy she could control effectively cause she's way older than he is and she could give him some good beatings if she wants to and control him to her taste. So at this point she lets Bruce go .
Letting Bruce go is a good thing but is it a Good thing for Bruce? You would say yes, after all it is all he ever wanted ,he wants to be free ,give his own commands, do things his own way and be the boss of himself. But instead letting go of Bruce affects him in the most terrible way. At this point people like Bruce tend to feel loss, rejected ,unwanted lonely and in their own world because they are used to being controlled by that particular person ,so it is really hard to move on. Series of things starts happening. They feel rejected by ones they were close to, so the tend to find love ,peace and confidence with strangers and form new circles. They tend to be secretive and do things Independently because they are trying to move on and at a point they consider changing their personality to someone else. To them and in their brains, being a new person entirely and hiding from all the drama is still part of moving on.90% of what happens in their lives happens in their brains .So they see their lives as unfulfilled and useless but they truly want to correct their mess and be fulfilled.
Most introverts with psychological issues like that of Bruce Jenner tend to have their strong point transition into their weak point and they fall in love with things around them and have a soft spot for the things they love especially those kind of things their control freaks loves. In Bruce Jenner's case his strong point is competition ,he is an very competitive person, he wants to be winner in every game ,etc. .His weak point is still competition and his controller, Kris. His soft spot is his family and women(I don't mean sexually) so he falls in love with what his family loves and what women love in general and he's passion and interest is in the feminine race. He lives with women, he trained and nurtures females from girls to women .So now, at this point of psychological rejection ,lowliness and loss, his mind tells him, If you can do all this things, you can be a lady too. The competitive spirit in him fuels the thought ''common you can do anything, that's the spirit, show the world you can be a lady and still achieve" and he fully succumbs and feels the best thing to do is fully transgender. The sad thing is that he went through all of the psychological trouble alone and his family was too busy to notice. Probably at some point , he opened up to a few strangers, friends and family but they didn't really understand but believe me, Bruce Jenner is going 97% through this psychological stress journey alone.
I'll remind us about a legend who we all mourn that went through this kind of stress too. I would have loved to share more deep eye opening stories but the kind of job I do, most things are kept very personal and confidential, so I can't share but i'll remind us of a story we all know already. Honestly ,I cry every time I have to thing or write about psychological stress journeys of introverts. I'll remind us of the Legend Michael Jackson. Michael was popular ,had all he ever wanted ,fought through with a lot of issues alone and psychologically. Finally, to please what he love(his fans and music) and become acceptable by people for what and who he was ,he went through a surgery to change his old personality, begin a new life and start afresh. People supported him, he felt wanted but not happy. He lived his life in regret .He lived his life wishing he never had to change his true personality. He lived his life wishing someone had stopped him. He lived his life cherishing his old photos. He lived his life alone. No one really knew the psychological stress and journey Michael was going through. Even with the over dose he took to stop this journey ,it didn't stop. It just keeps going as long as your alone. Truly ,do we want another story like this?
Bruce has a passion for women and competitions, he could channel it to something positive. Create an NGO ,an organisation or company with the aim of uplifting the feminine race and building strong competitive winning spirit in women. What he is channelling on now is the negative effect of psychological journeys and the thing is most of them succeed in channelling their success on the negative effect of this psychological journeys only 1% of these people manage to find their way back .No one would want to stop you Bruce ,no one stopped Michael, no one will want to stand as the barrier to what you want as a matter of fact they'll support you because they world, everyone wants to see something new but the fact is do they really care about you? Do you really care about yourself? You won't be the first Bruce neither would you be the last. A lot of people have been here before you and they all fought ,people lost and people won,they all went on this journey. Right now ,a lot of people all over the world are fighting hard. Some gave up while fighting ,others are still fighting but very few 0.5% win this fight. It up to you Bruce, you can channel the positive or negative way. You'll regret if you keep channelling the negative way, you'll hate yourself. Through research people who go through your kind of journey commit suicide at the end of it and live their entire lives after transition with pain ,shame and guilt especially the ones that have been told of the dangers already, the shame won't let them open up that they truly regret , they live their lives alone and wait for death, if death doesn't comes fast. They kill themselves. It's your choice Bruce Jenner ,no one can decide for you. They'll only advice you like I have done. By then you'll remember someone told you. BRUCE JENNER ,IF YOU TRANSITION FULLY TO A WOMAN,YOU'LL REGRET IT.
For those of you that have family/friends going through this kind of issues. Do not leave them, the only way to get them back is caring about what they want and respect for who they truly are. Do not discriminate them. Love them, do not ignore them, it's really hard dealing with this kind of people cause they make you feel a lot of emotions and pity for them but you've got to stand up and emphasis what it right to them with love. If you have any personal questions or you want to reach me, you can via ambergoldenpeter@gmail.com I love you all :) n/b am not trying to criticize anyone or be judgemental, am just spelling out true facts to help save life(s).Every human on earth is amazing with love. :)
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